Over Sexed Test Too

People are indeed individuals having their own agenda and mistakes are made for it is all a part of life. We are a tried and true society, we try things, if we don’t like it, we move on. The one thing we all have in common is sexuality. We flaunt sexuality when we want to, and we hide it when we can. Most of us can, some of us can’t help being sexual all of the time even when they try not to be.

In my last test, it was not really a test, more of a setting for this the real test. The fact is, many humans hide there sexuality more often than not because they think it is something dirty. These people are taught that sex is dirty at a very young age and now find themselves in a pickle. When thoughts of sex overwhelm the mind, some would welcome it, act upon it, while others will be in a crises situation and do anything in their power to get rid of the thoughts but they usually will fail. These people who fail hide it from everyone but themselves.

Men are best at hiding sexuality from their families, friends, and society in general. Women know how to use it, than put it away until needed. This is normal use of sexuality and wont change because it hasn’t in a million years and it wont for a million more.

Women will never understand why some men visit professionals, prostitutes when they have good women at home. This answer if easy, a man won’t expose himself as a sexual being to the ones he loves. He places himself on that pedestal and wants to be idolized by his family and peers as a hero and throughout the ages of sexuality, sex is perversion simple and clear.

The days of hiding sexuality are over and now if honest with yourself, you too can enjoy your own sexuality. In a book called “Bedside Companion” written by Teresa Katz, a sex therapist, the female expose themselves honestly through letters written by real people telling secrets, a secret life, hidden from their peers. A “good” man or woman is not immune to a secret sexual fantasy which they may or may not act out but will surely hide that fact from their husbands and wives, and so it goes.

You must tear down those guards, be yourself, and most of all be honest with yourself and then you can truly be a whole, real person again. Hiding your true feelings is hard work, being your true self is as easy as pie.

Ask yourself a few questions and remember, if you cannot answer yourself truthfully, then you are not ready to be free.

Do you like yourself, what you look like, what you have become, what you like sexually? You should not care what kind of shape you are in, if you like yourself; work harder at becoming a better you. When a woman asks a man if he likes the way another woman looks, he, nine out of ten will answer no, which is a lie. Men will never ask these questions of a woman because men are simply doers. Women are always inquisitive in the sex department even though they won’t try in the bedroom.

A fantasy should be welcome material in the bedroom, or out, depending where your fantasy takes place. Having read hat last sentence, you are now about to become a part of the test. Do not stop in the middle or questions will be left unanswered. Finish what you start should be your first rule. The second rule, answer all questions asked no matter what, or how silly it seems. To answer the questions will mean you want to be more than you can be, sexually.

If you are still reading, then it shows interest which is a good thing. Now the focus is all about you and no one else. I think it makes things more intimate already don’t you? Ok, so here we are, you and I, all alone, no one to destroy what we have created here. Even if there are people around you, thoughts, yours and mine, cannot be infiltrated by those who want to keep hiding behind that social mask so what they don’t know, won’t hurt them. So you had a date and things didn’t work out the way you would like them to. I am talking whenever; you must have been out once or twice right? Ok, you had more planned but the other person had no clue. You need to make those signals more clear to them, so, did you do all you could to send out those signals? Why not? My guess is that you were hiding more clues than not, right? Be honest.

When you are alone do you ever look in the mirror and wonder what it would be like for the other person to look at you, touch you, feel every sensual place on your body? Masturbation usually is just that. The wondering if you are adequate and trust me you are. And there is no room at this point for doubt.

So you go out and have a blast of a time, do you end up home alone feeling turned on with no where to go? We all have, because we didn’t act upon our true self to take things further, we depended on the other person to guide us to that place. You cannot depend on them for your satisfaction; you must be bold, and exciting. You want these things but still have a few walls to take down and inside, you know this to be true.

You sit at the bar watching the crowd. You see a guy sitting at the bar alone and he glances at a woman, a very sexy woman, full figured, tight dress, low top, heels accenting her great legs and he knows he wants her to go home with him. He gets up and starts the ritual. He compliments her, she compliments her, they flirt, and they touch, and almost make a scene in the bar which would have had the police down there in a moments notice. You can do nothing but smile and look around for similar action. You weren’t bold enough to get what you wanted so you lost out. The fact is, watchers are not doers but this can change. Just go for it, let yourself go which may open you up to failure but at least you gave it a shot.

You are over a co workers home and his girlfriend is taking a bubble bath. He notices he didn’t have beer so he tells you he will be right back. He leaves you in his home alone, would you take a chance or will that be breaking some sort of male code? The friend walks to the window and watches the guy pull away. He heads to the bathroom and walks in. He hides his eyes and says he really needed to use the bathroom and didn’t know anyone was in here. If the woman hides herself and is appalled at what happened, you apologize to her backing out, if she smiles, well, that’s another story. The fact is, the woman acted hysterical so the guy backed out as if it truly was an accident but the woman never told her man what had happened which left a window open for future delights.

A woman is stranded and her friend, a guy tried to help. She needs to be home because she has an important call coming in an hour. The guy offers her a ride and they leave a note on the car for AAA. They arrive home and she gets out and offers the man a drink. The man either leaves or stays. If he stays, he gets more then he bargained for if he leaves, he ends up alone again. The woman could have said thanks and walked up to her door alone but she made the offer. You must know the signals, take a moment and think, than act.

Married couples are in the same boat as singles. The partner is the pursuer and leaves signals all the time but we take things for granted. The reason we get into a rut is the simple fact that we bottle ourselves up in a world that accepts nothing more than a “good person.” Tear down those walls; show yourself off and your partner will likely want to be a part of it.

Discipline counts. Don’t be a slob, dress better, eat right even if you want to scoff down a whole turkey, do that when you are alone, in front of company, look like you are amazing at all you do.

A wink can go a long way. The wink is intended to insure the other person you are open for further communications.

Masturbation is healthy and we all do it some more than others. Exploring yourself sexually will open up the door to more friendships, more love, and more warmth towards others. When you do it well, you gain confidence, in knowing that anyone will wish they had what you have.

I know that many of you will not leave a comment but some might. The ones that don’t, we have work that needs to be done, for those who do, you get it, you have passed this test with flying colors, wink, wink.